Rooted

This course is designed for men who want to understand how to feel like the confident, masculine partner in dating without needing to hide his sensitive side. When he integrates his ability to create deep emotional safety with clarity of what he wants in the relationship, he becomes trustable to the type of woman who desires emotional depth and sexual chemistry in her love life.

There’s mixed feedback about how attractive a “sensitive” man is to women. This might have caused you to feel self-conscious or confused about how to attract the type of woman you want to be with, making her seem “out of your league”. Being told- outright or passively- that women want something other than what feels natural to them creates a leak in your self-confidence that shows up as you not sharing your preferences, needs, or goals for the relationship to be more appealing. But what you’re doing is trying to hide your natural masculine leadership. THIS is why when you want to advance the relationship dynamic toward exclusivity or a sexual connection, she moves away (she will say things like, “I don’t want to ruin what we have”, “I like the connection the way it is”, or “I don’t see you like that”). 

It’s not your limits that keep her from building attraction, it’s your not owning them. It’s how you feel about them that will keep you from feeling confident in yourself now AND block you from the action that would help you continue to grow (this is what she is picking up on). There’s a difference between “this is true for me right now” and “this is true for me forever” energy.

The reason many men struggle with this part of dating is because they get triggered by a woman moving away and he isn’t clear on how to close the gap. Instead of rooting into his life and letting it mean she’s not the right fit for him, he adapts core parts of himself until he finds himself in a connection that is draining because he’s not plugged into himself any more. Part of what we needs to attract the “right” woman for him is to be able to reframe her behavior (to see it more accurately so you don’t react the way you usually do), and continue investing in his own growth and happiness. This is how a relationship that will make it longterm and stay out of the friendzone is created.

Building the confidence to lead with your preferences requires you to step out of “either/or” beliefs -either I get what I need/want (and you may leave) OR you get what you need and want (and stay)- and into a new paradigm. In this new paradigm, you are aiming for win-win. Coming up with a win-win strategy isn’t the hard part- you’re a natural problem solver- it’s becoming so grounded in the belief that it’s not a “win” unless you’re both winning.

Upgrading your awareness to start playing in this paradigm means you naturally start attracting a new type of partner, the ones who want to build deep, lasting intimacy and screening out the ones who aren’t available for that.

This program is designed to help you plug back into your core so you can date the way an emotionally secure man would so you can feel confident being yourself while you allow the admiration, sexual chemistry, and respect from the women you pursue to build.

Hi, I’m Courtney, a certified relationship coach with nearly five years of experience helping men and women feel confident, set boundaries, and trust themselves in relationships. Through my work, I’ve helped my clients connect deeply with themselves and their partners, empowering them to know when to invest further in a connection—and when to walk away.

I also co-host For the Love of Men Podcast with my dear friend, Brianna Mosher, for four years, where we bring a non-traditional third way forward by honoring the natural differences between the Masculine and Feminine to create healthy, polarized relationships.

As someone who’s committed to understanding men and masculine energy, I’ve found dating men to be a natural place of deeply corrective experiences, growth, and maturity and the same can be true in reverse, Having worked with both men and women, I understand what it feels like to struggle with connection and what’s needed to bridge those gaps.—insights I now share with clients who are ready to build fulfilling, aligned relationships.

What you’ll get

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    Access to all 4 modules +3 worksheets for the life of the product. Go at your own pace- digest it slowly or gobble it up. No judgment here😝

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    Complementary emails are like the next piece of the puzzle delivered to your inbox. As you integrate the information from the modules into your own life, you may be surprised how your life starts to shift. These emails are designed to go alongside the material and apply the concepts you’re learning to specific (common) scenarios and break them down to the level you can take action on.

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    Bonuses Include: a tracker to systematically get more effective with dating (so you fall in love with reality, not potential), nervous system practices that naturally allow your feminine partner to feel your empowered masculine energy, scripts to start/keep the conversation flowing so you get the information you need to determine if you’re compatible, how to move from the app to a date in an empowered way, and how to release her if she’s not aligned.

What’s inside

Module 1: What’s actually Happening

This module starts with understanding how men and women are different and how you’ve been creating the dynamics you’ve experienced from an energetic perspecitve.

Module 2: Understanding which “parts” of you to trust.

If you want to be seen as trustworthy to a potential partner, you need to be able to fully trust yourself. This starts with understanding which parts of you to trust and which parts to simply take into consideration to make decisions that benefit all involved.

Module 3: Empowering Those Around You

There is a connection between how much of your masculine energy you’ve integrated and how effectively you can bring out the best in those around you. True leadership has an element of seeing what others cannot see within themselves and helping them believe in it as it comes to fruition.

Module 4: How to Identify a Healthy Partner

You may think opposites attract, and if you want to connect with a woman, you may find it surprising to know that you need to develop a healthy relationship with your own feminine energy and emotional self to create and maintain the healthiest connection with a potential partner;

Bonus Modules: How to Integrate Emotions so You don’t project them and

Understanding How the Feminine Expresses

These examples walk you through from concept to practice, how to create a healthier relationship with your own emotions so you build confidence in utilizing this language and interpreting the input effectively. Similarly, women have a unique way of communicating. Understanding their language will allow you to connect more deeply -with more self-confidence and less painful miscommunications that may be a result of this difference of style.

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✺ Frequently asked questions ✺

  • The men who get the best results from this content tend to have a history of being told their a "really nice guy", but don't understand why they're attracting women who bring more drama than peace into their life.

    To get the most benefit from this content, you need to be willing to reflect on your experiences and the role you may have been (unconsciously) playing in the dynamic, be open to new ideas and practicing a new way of relating.

    This is the next-level inner relationship with yourself that will change how confident you feel in your own body, setting limits, and knowing how to ask for what you need and want within a romantic context.

    Bonus points: when you do this type of inner strengthening, you'll notice not only potential partners, but all the women (and empowered men) in your life respond to you differently which creates a feedback loop that naturally reinforces your confidence. And because you feel stronger, more stable, and able to swipe left on drama, you can more easily take on challenges in other areas of life- creative ventures, expanding your professional network (often correlating with more money/opportunities), and building stronger bonds with friends/family.

  • This is advanced content so it will be less helpful to men who are unfamiliar with polarity dynamics (Masculine and Feminine energy). I'd recommend starting with my podcast- For the Love of Men Podcast (TM) (there are >85 episodes for free) before you dive in.

  • Some of the natural results of understanding your own Masculine energy include:

    Experiencing the life you want;

    Feeling confident to ask for what you need/want, and not judging yourself for it;

    Understanding how to intuitively engage with the Feminine to create a more harmonious experience in dating and long-term relationships;

    Getting "behind" your goals wholeheartedly ("hedging" to prevent disappointment almost ensures it);

    Believing in yourself as a partner and feeling worthy of a woman that you used to think was "out of your league";

    Feeling calm as the process/conversations unfold (no anxiousness if she doesn't text back);

    Depersonalizing feedback so it doesn't derail you;

    Clearly identifying potential drama and getting ahead of it;

    Knowing what to look for in a partner and trusting yourself to keep it healthy when you've found "the one";

    Feeling stable in relationships;

    Meeting and accepting deeper parts of yourself;

    More courage to create intimacy and experience belonging in all areas of your life.

    This work changes how you show up in your relationships, allowing more collaborative experiences- with people that feel good to be around- without burning out while feeling a sense of worthiness to ask for help and enforcing the standards you have for your life.

    When we honor our own limits we can make sure we have what we need so we can give wholeheartedly to whatever is in front of us instead of hedging our energy to "save some for us".

  • This content is self-study. You can go at your own pace and digest it slowly or gobble it up. No judgment here😝 you will get access to all 4 modules +3 worksheets for the life of the product.

  • If you'd like additional support, I offer 1:1 coaching calls and ongoing support via Telegram to answer ALL of your questions (you can get 3 month, 1 month, or 75 min at a time for deeper integration and support).

    This allows you to practice applying what you’re learning while receiving feedback and support, creating a deeper transformation and lasting impact.

  • Because the transformation that happens as a result of this work is so individual, I don't guarantee specific results/timing but I am committed to teaching the principles necessary for men who think this is a good fit to experience dramatic outcomes.

    If you have specific questions, feel free to reach out (cschandnutrition@gmail.com) and we can chat or schedule time to get the information you need to make a decision that best supports your growth (even if this isn't the best fit for right now).

  • Not only have I learned how to communicate and connect better with women, I have learned how to empower the women in my life to be their best selves. Guys trust me once you know what causes women more stress it becomes so obvious what to do instead and everything is easier. Do yourself a favor and learn this.

    Anonymous

  • Relationships seem easier. It becomes so obvious what to do instead.

    Anonymous

  • I didn’t realize I was attracted to wounded women until I took this class. Not only did I learn about myself and how to handle my emotions and beliefs, I learned what a healthy and empowered woman looks like and needs. ...No need to settle when you understand what to look for and what the type of woman I have always wanted is needing from me. I can 100% say this is the best thing I have done for my relationships... they all seem easier.

    Participant

  • "As a man, I did not understand the way that women communicate. This made for a lot of drama. I learned why I do the things I do (and can laugh about it now) so I can correct them to grow as a man. Truly mind-blowing information. Since working with Courtney, my relationship has grown from an emotional and physical perspective.”

    Client