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Why Your Buddy’s Girlfriend Can’t Give You the Feedback You Actually Need…
Courtney Schand Courtney Schand

Why Your Buddy’s Girlfriend Can’t Give You the Feedback You Actually Need…

If you’ve ever been told, “You’re such a great guy—any woman would be lucky to have you,” but your dates still aren’t turning into real, lasting relationships—you’re not alone.

A lot of men who are kind, thoughtful, and emotionally available find themselves stuck in the early stages of dating. You’re doing everything “right”—planning the dates, making her feel comfortable, showing genuine interest—but somehow, the chemistry just doesn’t seem to stick.

So, what’s going on?

Here’s the truth: It’s not about being a "nice guy" vs. a "bad boy." What makes a woman feel drawn to you—and stay interested—is the energy you bring to the connection.

When you’re clear on who you are, what you want, and you trust yourself enough to lead confidently, the entire dynamic shifts. And the best part? You don’t have to play games or pretend to be someone else to get there.

In my coaching program, The Rebrand, I work with men who are ready to step into the most grounded, magnetic version of themselves—the version their ideal partner would be excited to build a life with.

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